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Post by AshleighJoy Tue Sep 20, 2011 12:06 am

I'm so lonely all the time....how do I make friends? I haven't really had any really friends in probably about 5 or 6 years, I'm really getting sick of being alone. I'm pretty socially challenged and find it hard to talk to people I don't know but, I really need some good friends 'cause I can't take being alone anymore. I have a couple guys I consider friends but, I can't just call them up to have a movie night or whatever without it being super awkward because they are both best friends and I know at least one of them likes me.......so how do I go about finding some friends, I also work full time which makes the whole time thing a little more difficult and there's no one my age at my church Sad
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Post by kezzy Wed Sep 21, 2011 12:42 pm

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ITnDjxu-ygA

A song that came to my mind as I read your post.

Praying Hunn <3 God will send friends. It took many many years for me too.

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Post by Survivor2010 Wed Sep 21, 2011 7:06 pm

I just randomly go up to someone I think look friendly and just say hello and if they smile and say hi back thats a good sign. Very Happy Just start off with a simple hello.
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Post by AshleighJoy Wed Sep 21, 2011 7:37 pm

I'm not social enough to just go up to someone.
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Post by kezzy Wed Sep 21, 2011 7:49 pm

Well, words have power. Stop defining yourself based on who you think you are. It's like setting a limit to our potential! You have to choose Smile to take the first step and step out of your comfort zone. And you know we don't do this alone. God is always with us.

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Post by Steph Wed Sep 21, 2011 8:08 pm

Be yourself! Be friendly! Be an encourager! Smile! Friendships take work. If you find out someone you know has a similar interest as you, contact them and let them know!
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Post by kezzy Wed Sep 21, 2011 8:22 pm

Agree Smile smile! Its nt hard to smileeee Smile

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Post by AshleighJoy Wed Sep 21, 2011 10:49 pm

I smile all the time......it makes no difference.
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