Ashamed...and alone..

So this is gonna be really hard to say but I need to get it out..I have a sex addiction. Not like so bad that I sleep with everyone. I've only slept with one person. But my problem is like porn and phone and cyber sex..I've struggled with this for years..I have gone almost 3 months without any form of sex and me and my gf have decided to wait till marriage..but for some reason I am being tempted right now with it again..but what's bad is it's not with my gf..it's other people..no one in specific..but just the thoughts are there..and I feel horrible about this..why am I thinking about this? I don't get it..I really don't want to hurt her like that but the thoughts are overwhelming me..and I feel so alone with this..I feel like no one has ever felt this way before..idk what to do about it..

Hey,

You're not alone in the fight against sin. God's grace can help us overcome.

Hey girl, never think you are the only person who struggles with such things. Sex addiction is one of those things that people try to keep in secret. I commend you for being honest about it. It is so tempting when you have sex thrown at you from the TV, the computer, even music. Plus we have more access now to pornography than we ever did before due to the internet. We need to be so careful that we are careful about what we are watching and listening to. I thought of two songs as I was thinking about the issues you talked about. The first one is a song I learned back when I was a kid. "Be careful little eye's what you see, for the Father up above is looking down in love, so be careful little eyes what you see." Things done in secret are never secret. What we see, and hear can either corrupt or enhance our minds in light of our relationship with Christ. You might have heard this song but thought I'd share it because it talks about this very thing....

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Thanks guys. And yeah I've heard that song. I love it. Thanks for understanding. You girls are great. <3